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Chapter 3
  • State
  • Management 101


  • Accessing Personal Genius
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“States – The foundation of MS
  • Before there is behavior, there are states.
  • What state are you in when resourceful?
  • What state are you in when unresourceful?
  • In this section we look more into how the mind creates states and how to change them.
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States¾ Foundation of MS cont
  • In order to run our own brain and maintain desired states, we need some basic knowledge.
  • There are some key principles that we need to understand.
  • Are you pleased with how you are running your brain and maintaining your states?
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1) The Components of States
  • Linguistics
    • The Sensory Representation System (Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic, Olfactory & Gustatory)
    • The Language Representation System
  • Physiology/Neurology
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Figure 3:1 – Neuro-Linguistic States
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2a)Two Avenues to Evoke States
  • Internal Representations specify our state of mind¾ the things that we internally map out (VAK & Language, what we say to ourselves).
    • These make up our understanding, learnings, beliefs, values, etc.
    • We have choice about what to represent; we have Representational Power
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2b)Two Avenues to Evoke States
  • Physiology and/Or Neurology describe the physical state or state of body¾
      • …the things that we experience in our body, involving health, posture, breathing, bio-chemistry, etc.
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2) Two Royal Roads to State Control
  • Because our Language as it interacts with our Physiology/Neurology produces or states, then we have these two basic elements to not only create our states but to control  our states:
    • Mind
    • Body (neurology/physiology)
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Figure 3:2 –
Two Royal Roads to State Control
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3) State Object
  • In order for a mind-body-emotion state to exist, there must be an object of attention.
  • In Primary States (i.e, fear, anger, joy, calmness, sadness, etc.) the object usually refers to something “outside” you and “beyond” your nervous system.
  • “What do your thoughts-and-feelings refer to? What’s on your mind?”
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4) State Awareness
  • Awareness of the states and the factors that drive them.
  • Because all states habituate, they drop out of consciousness awareness.
  • We must bring our states to consciousness in order to start controlling them.
  • How is the state encoded and structured?
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Figure 3:3 – State Awareness
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5) State Accessing/Inducing
  • We can use the Two Royal Roads to state control by using our mind-and-body neuro-linguistic system to access previous states (memory) or states that we can imagine (imagination) to access a desired state.
  • See Figure 3:4 next slide.
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Figure 3:4 –
State Accessing/Inducing
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Exercise: In and out of states
  • Access a recent state of being courageous and note the qualities.
  • Access a state of being fearful and note the qualities.
  • Write down the differences of each experience.
  • Practice going in and out of these two states.
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6) State Altering
  • States do not stay the same, but forever change.
  • Count on your states altering, shifting, and transforming.
  • What methods do you have for altering your states?
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7) State Intensity & Amplification
  • Gauge each state in terms of intensity.
  • How much do you experience the state?
  • What level of strength or weakness does the state convey?  How much does it dominate your consciousness?
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Figure 3:5 – State Intensity
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State Intensification
  • Need more fluency? Crank it up by increasing or intensifying the IR in the sense and language modalities.
  • What processes do you rely on for amplifying your states?
  • How do you crank them up?
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Managing States
  • Managing States necessitates developing high level awareness for four states:
    • Identifying what state
    • How much we have that state
    • Its direction
    • Its focus and object
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8) State Strategy
  • All behaviors are a product of an ongoing process (strategy) of pictures, sounds, feelings, smells, tastes and meta-level word meanings that we give an experience.
  • You have a strategy for every behavior.
  • Stephen Covey, “In between stimulus and response, there is choice.”
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9) State Strategy Interrupts
  • Stop any and every mind-body-emotion state by:
    • Jarring
    • Interfering
    • Sabotaging, etc
  • State Interrupts refer to ways of stopping or preventing a state from functioning.
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10) State Anchoring
  • Set up a trigger (sight, sound, sensation, movement, gesture, word, etc.) and link it to the state.
  • Anchors operate as Pavlovian conditioning tools for state management and depend on uniqueness, intensity, timing and purity.
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Three Keys to Anchoring
  • Intensity ®
  • Purity
  • Uniqueness
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Figure 3:6 Precision Anchoring
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State Accessing & Anchoring
  • Identify the state to anchor.
  • Evoke it fully.
    • “Think of a time when you fully experienced this state...”
    • “What would it be like if you did fully experience this state?”
  • Anchor the state when it is highly amplified.
  • Practice stepping in an out of the states.
  • Apply the resource state to a time and place in your every day life.
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11) State Dependency
  • Once in a state, in a strong and intense state, we experience a dependency on that state for how we think, learn, remember, perceive, communicate and behave.
  • We call this State Dependency.
  • It means that the States has us, and feels as if it has a life of its own.
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Figure 3:7 – State Dependency
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12) From State Dependency to Meta-States- Self Reflexivity
  • When we experience a powerful State Dependency, it becomes very easy to Reflect that State back onto another state.
  • When we do, we create a state-about-state structure and this gives birth to Meta-States (See Figure 3:8 ®).
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Figure 3:8 – From State Dependency to Meta-States
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Self Reflectivity
  • When we reference an internal thought, feeling, idea, etc., we are Self-Referencing.
  • This raises our awareness to a new level.
  • It creates Self-Reflexive Consciousness.
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Figure 3:9
Courage/
Faith
Applied to Fear
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The Basic Meta-Stating Pattern
  • Access a Resource State.
  • Amplify & Anchor the Resource State.
  • Apply to the Primary State.
  • Appropriate in your life and future.
  • Analyze the quality of the Meta-State in your entire mind-body system.
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13) The Internal Logic
  • When we transcend from one state to another state, we set the second state as a frame over the first and include the second inside the first frame.
  • Examples: calmness to anxiety; respect to anger
  • See Figure 3:10 ®
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Figure 3:10
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14) State Utilization
  • Your brain over the years has learned some powerful states.
  • Are they useful and if not, where and how can you use them?
  • “Where would I like to use this state?”
  • The mind-body system cares not about the content – only the state of mind.
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15) States as Emotion (Kmeta)
  • How do we construct emotions?
  • Emotions consists of evaluative judgments, beliefs, meanings and values.
  • If you evaluate your experience of the world as a good experience, you will have a positive emotions.
  • If the evaluation is bad, you will have negative emotions. See Figure 3:11®
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Figure 3:11
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“Emotions are Just Signals” between our
Model of the World and our
Experience of the World.
See Figure 3:12 ®
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Figure 3:12
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Emotions are Just Signals Pattern
  • Recognize that emotions are just signals.
  • Access a witnessing state.
  • Recognize the triggers of the event.
  • Say to yourself, “It is just an emotion.”
  • Design engineer a new meta-stating structure.
  • Meta-state the negative emotion with a powerful resource state.
  • Quality control the permission and add needed reframes.
  • Put into your future and install.
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Figure 3:13
Texturing Fear
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16) State Extending/
State Containment
  • We can both extend and contain states.
  • These properties of neuro-linguistic states enable us to take the thoughts-feelings and all of the mind-body correlations and contaminate other experiences with a state.
  • We can also build boundaries and barriers around a state so as to disconnect from other things.
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17) State Expressions
versus State Frames
  • We have four central expressions of states:
    • Thinking¾ What do you think about this?
    • Feeling¾ What do you feel?
    • Speaking¾ What do you say?
    • Behaving¾ What do you do?
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18) Meta-States ¾
States About States
  • Something wild and wonderful happens when we access and relate one state to another¾ we generate a meta-state.
  • We access a state of Thought-Feelings (T-F) and apply it or bring it to bear upon another state.
  • We layer state upon state.
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Figure 3:14
States About States
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Changing Meaning by Reframing
  • All meaning is a structured reality.
  • Each individual constructs his/her own meaning reality.
  • As a structured reality, meaning functions as a fluid reality.
  • As a structured reality, meaning is changed in the same way that it was first structured.
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Reframing
  • In in framing (thinking, giving meaning), we create a mental context by which to think about something…
  • Then in reframing, we attach a new meaning.
  • This leads to a new response, a new experience and a new behavior.
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Reframing
  • Some meanings are in the muscle like blocking.
  • Blocking/ stuttering derives to a large extent from the meanings given to what stuttering means to the individual.
  • Because blocking/ stuttering is at its roots a product of thinking, it is subject to change via changing the meanings associated with blocking/ stuttering.
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Reframing
  • Meaning works in powerful ways.
  • If in framing (thinking, giving meaning), we create a mental context by which to think about something, then in reframing, we attach a new meaning.
  • This leads to a new response, a new experience, and a new behavior.
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Two Basic Ways to Reframe
  • Content/Meaning Reframing involves giving the experience new meanings.
  • Context Reframing involves finding a new context where the experience could be useful.
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Framing Methodology:
  • Content Reframing – “What else could this mean?”
    “This is X – no, it is Y and that is better.”
  • Context Reframing – “Where would this be really useful and valuable?”
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Conscious Reframing
  • Identify a behavior
  • Engage
  • Identify frame
  • Chunk down to more specifics
  • Context Reframe
  • Content Reframe
  • Integrate
  • Test
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The “Miracle Pattern”
  • Identify your problem.
  • Identify your beliefs-about-your beliefs.
  • Sketch out the higher level meaning structure of the experience.
  • Run an ecology-check state about the meta-beliefs.
  • Imagining the night of the miracle.
  • Describe the day after.
  • Confirm and future pace.
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Figure 3:16
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Changing Meaning by Changing Beliefs
  • What is the difference between a thought and a belief?
  • Can you hold a thought in your mind that you do not believe?
  • How do we change a thought into a belief?
  • A belief is a thought that we say yes to.
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Figure 3:17
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Frames by Implication
  • Behind or above our yes’ and our no’s (and any other thought) are many other frames of mind – usually unconscious.
  • We constantly have thoughts about thoughts.
  • Over the years, this process layers our mind with frames of mind innumerable.
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Figure 3:18
Frames by
I implication
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Meta-Frame Questions
  • All Meta-Levels in our mind are made of the same “stuff” as the primary level.
  • We use our see-hear-feel representations and words to build up meanings at the Meta-Levels.
  • We define our Meta-Levels with different categories.
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Meta Level Categories
  • Meanings
  • Beliefs
  • Values
  • Identity
  • Aboutness
  • Principles
  • Decisions
  • Intentions
  • Outcome
  • Understandings
  • Expectations
  • Paradigms, models
  • Metaphors
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Figure 3:19 –
Teasing Out
Frames
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Meta Levels
  • Each of these frames has other categories within it.
  • I.E., you can believe in a value or value a belief, etc.
  • When we “nominalize” these categories and make them “things,” we get into trouble.
  • Only nominalize categories that serve you.
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Meta-Level Elicitation Questions
  • Under each category we have questions that will elicit the categories from the individual.
  • In asking these questions, you are exploring the individuals higher level structures.
  • Remember, they are not different “things,” just different ways of expression.
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1. Meanings – ideas in the mind
  • What does this mean to you?
  • What else does it mean to you?
  • How much meaning does it hold for you?
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2. Beliefs – ideas we affirm
  • What do you believe about that?
  • How much do you value that belief?
  • Do you have any beliefs about that belief?
  • How have you confirmed that belief?
  • How strong is that confirmation?
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3. Values – importance, esteem
  • How is that important to you?
  • What do you believe about that value?
  • Why is that important or valuable to you?
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4. Identity – ideas about self
  • Does this affect your self-definition or identity?
  • How does it affect the way you think about yourself?
  • What does this say about how you perceive yourself?
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5. Aboutness – ideas about ideas
  • What do you think about that?
  • What do you feel about that?
  • What comes to mind when you entertain that thought?
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6. Principles – guidelines, laws
  • What principles do you hold about that?
  • I understand ____________ (‘what’ about ‘that’)?
  • How does this work?
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7. Decisions – ideas we separate and cut off from other ideas
  • What decisions drive this?
  • So what will you do?
  • How would you complete this phrase, “I will ____________ (‘what’)?
  • Or, if you use, I choose _________?
  • Or, I feel ____________?
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8. Intentions – motive, wants
  • What is your purpose in this?
  • What is your intent in this?
  • What do you get from that?
  • And when you get that (as you want it), what will that get you?
  • Why is that valuable to you?
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9. Outcomes – goals, ends
  • How do you want to see this turn out?
  • What do you want from this?
  • What consequences do you hope will come from this?
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10. Understandings –
supporting ideas
  • What do you understand about that?
  • What knowledge do you have about this?
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11. Expectations - anticipation
  • So what are you expecting?
  • Where did you learn to expect that?
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12. Paradigms, Models, Schema
  • (The ideas we have that come together as more complex mappings about things.)
  • What paradigm (model, schema) drives and informs this?
  • What paradigms are you relying on in your understanding?
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13. Metaphors,
Non-Linguistic Symbols
  • What is this like?
  • If this was a color, what color would it be?
  • If this was an animal, what animal would it be?
  • What would this sound like if you put it to music?
  • If you made up a poem or story about this, what would you say?
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14. Realizations
  • How does this feel to you?
  • When you realize this, what do you think?
  • Now that you know, what do you want to do?
  • Now that you are aware of this, what comes to mind?
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15. Permissions
  • What happens when you give yourself permission to experience “X”?
  • As you give yourself permission for this, notice what happens?
  • How well does this settle?
  • How many more times will you need to give yourself permission?
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Meta-Yes/ Meta-No Pattern
  • We change a limiting belief at the base level by saying “no” to it.
  • Make sure your desired belief is ecological for you.
  • Meta-stating a limiting “belief” enables us to de-commission old programs.
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Figure 3:20
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Figure 3:21
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Meta-Yes/ Meta-No Pattern
  • Access a limited belief and “get a strong “no!”
  • Meta “no” the limiting belief.
  • Access a strong and robust “yes.”
  • Meta “yes” the enhancing belief.
  • Yes, yes it repeatedly and put it into the future.
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Changing Meaning by Changing Reactions
  • Meaning drives everything including our unresourceful states.
  • We hold our unresourceful states in place by the meaning we give to internal or external experiences.
  • To change this meaning, a good place to start is with the “Map – Territory” distinction. ®
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Decide to fully and completely learn the distinction between the Map and the Territory. 

See Figure 3:22 ®
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Figure 3:22
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Meta-Stating Semantic Reactions
  • I will learn the distinction between map and territory.
  • I will use my neurology as a human being.
  • I will manage the higher levels of my mind.
  • I will not take counsel of my illogical fears.
  • I will access my higher resources.
  • I will create a new “gestalt” from my higher resources.
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Figure 3:23
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Changing Meaning by Changing Language
  • We have looked inside the movie; lets now look inside the language of our unresourceful states.
  • Our matrices have language and language has structure.
  • We have questions (Meta-Model) that effectively challenge the structure of language.
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Figure 3:24
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Tearing Language Apart
  • What does this state mean to you?
  • How is this state a problem for you?
  • When do you do this state? When do you not have this problem?
  • Where do you do this? Where do you not do this?
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Tearing Apart the Language
  • How do you do the process of having  this resourceful state?
  • What do you see, hear, feel and how do you talk to yourself in order to create this state?
  • What are the thoughts in the back of your mind about this state?
  • Do you have any memories that contributed to this state?
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Fast Phobia Cure
  • Behind many unresourceful states one will inevitably find fear.
  • The “Fast Phobia Cure” is especially designed to remove visual images of the movie that creates fear.
  • The key to change fear is to gain control over what happens in your own brain.
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Figure 3:25
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The Fast Phobia Pattern
  • Step back from your painful memory.
  • Step back from watching the movie.
  • Let the old movie play out as you watch from the projection booth.
  • Step into the movie and rewind.
  • Repeat the process five times.
  • Test results.
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Safe to be Fluent Pattern
  • Identify who you are fluent with.
  • Recall fully and associate into the state.
  • Layer with frames that validate and re-enforce your identity.
  • Set a symbolic anchor.
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The Permission Pattern
  • Check permission level.
  • Integrate any and all objections.
  • Layer multiple levels of resourceful states on the permission.
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Stuttering as a Metaphor
  • Identify your personal metaphor.
  • Quality control your metaphor.
  • Alter and renew your metaphor