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- The
- “Intention/Purpose”
- Matrix
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- You have already been introduced to the Intention Matrix.
- In every Matrix, behind each one, there dwells higher intentions.
- These higher intentions primarily operate unconsciously.
- See Table 9:1®
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- Ask:
- What is your intent?
- What is your purpose in that?
- By having that (name the purpose), what does having that give you that
is even more important?
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- I am afraid of looking silly.
- I am afraid of people who know more than me.
- I am afraid of people who control my destiny. ®
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- I am afraid of making a mistake.
- I am afraid of being questioned.
- I am afraid of a “meeting situation” where I might stutter.
- I am afraid of suddenly and unexpectedly being asked a question.
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- This is not about right and wrong?
- We mean that for that person during that time in his/her life with the
resources that that person had available to him/her at that time in
his/her life, they did the best they could.
- To get this higher intent, we have to ask questions to “chunk up” on the
behavior.
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- Bob, “Roger, what is the purpose in fearing that your supervisor may
know more than you? Or, that he
may be short with you and that he may not wish to speak to you?”
- “I need his approval.”
- “I need to know that I am achieving.”
- “I need to be liked and when I am achieving, people will like me.”
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- Did Roger’s behavior of blocking and stuttering get him approval?
- No! It got him more fear which created the blocking which left him
feeling less approved.
- “Attempted Solutions make the problem worse.”
- See Table 9:1 ®
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- What are you seeking to accomplish?
- What do you want?
- What’s your purpose or agenda?
- What are you living for?
- Why is that important to you?
- Why do you want that?
- Why do you give yourself to that?
- What do you hope to obtain by getting that?
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- Every “thought” has two levels or dimensions:
- Attention – what is in your immediate perception – what is on your
mind.
- Intention – thoughts in the back of our mind, higher thoughts – what is
your motivation, agenda, or intention in doing that?
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- Meta-Stating an Intentional Stance for “Fluency”
- Meta-Alignment – Aligning Higher Frames
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- How is fluency important to you?
- Move up the higher-levels ... one at a time.
- Step into the higher value states of importance so that you feel them
fully.
- Bring the higher states/ frames of mind down and out.
- Commission your executive mind to take ownership of this.
- Invite other resources.
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- Identify a primary state sensory-based experience wherein you want more
alignment.
- Identify the P-S mental-emotional skills and abilities which enable you
to do this. (Capability)
- Identify the meta-levels of beliefs and values that support and empower
this. (Beliefs/ Values)
- Identify the meta-state of identity which emerges for you. (Identity)
- Identify the meta-state of purpose & destiny that then arises. (Vision, Mission, Spirit)
- Identify the decision that supports this.
- Describe these meta-Levels of meaning with a metaphor or story.
- Bring the higher levels down to the P-S behavior to let it all
integrate.
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